ARGUMENTS . . . . . Titus 3:9-11 Paul warns Titus,
as he warned Timothy, not to get involved in foolish and unprofitable disputes
(2 Timothy 2:14). This does not mean
that we should refuse to study, discuss, and examine different interpretations
of difficult Bible passages. Paul is
warning against petty quarrels, not honest discussion that leads to
wisdom. When foolish arguments develop,
it is best to either turn the discussion back to a track that is going
somewhere or to politely excuse yourself.
Thursday, February 28, 2013
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
why is keith BEING SUCH A HO?
Once again, I'm walking down Greenmount Avenue, on my way home from work, and someone offers me a ride. I told the guy "I'm good," as he followed me down the street. He proceeds to make a U-turn and called me over to his car. It's raining cats and dogs outside, so I figure why not? To make a long story short, he wanted the usual--a blow job. And once again, I gave in. This guy's name is Chris and he wasn't all that bad. He's yet another DL nigga scoping the streets for some head, as he bluntly says. We did the act in a back alley off of Bel Air Road. He tried to fuck me but the condom broke so that was a No-Go. Instead I gave him the head of his dreams as he came in my mouth. Afterwards, he drove me home and I gave him my number. Tomorrow, he wants to finish what we started, but we'll see.
This is the second guy in a weeks time that I gave an oral transaction in the front seat of his car with no reciprocation. I blew off and Indian by the name of KC who works part-time as a delivery man for Papa Johns. He has called me a few times since but I refuse to answer.
It looks like I'm just being a used, but in a strange way I don't mind. I'm not getting any action anyhow. I'm so naive because I keep hoping that one of these rides will hold my Prince Charming--a gentlemen, if you will. But all I seem to get are thirsty DL guys, and once I get into their cars, I feel pressure to do whatever they tell me to do out of fear that I'll end up stranded somewhere. I don't know if I'll ever learn, but what's wrong with a little fun for now.
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
what's keith READING?
RUN . . . . . 2 Timothy 2:22 Running away is
sometimes considered cowardly. But wise
people realize that removing themselves physically from temptations is often
very wise. Timothy, a young man, was
warned to run from anything that produced evil thoughts. Perhaps you experience a recurring temptation
that is difficult to resist. Remove
yourself physically from the situation.
Knowing when to run is as important in a spiritual battle as knowing
when and how to fight. (See also 1
Timothy 6:11.)
Monday, February 25, 2013
what's keith READING?
MONEY CYCLE . . . . . 1 Timothy 6:6-10 Despite
almost overwhelming evidence to the contrary, some people still believe money
brings happiness. Rich people craving
greater riches can be caught in an endless cycle that only ends in ruin and
desperation. How can you avoid the love
of money? Paul gives us some principles:
(1) realize that one day riches will all be gone (1 Timothy 6:7, 1 Timothy 17);
(2) be content with what you have (1 Timothy 6:8); (3) watch what you are
willing to do to get more money (1 Timothy 6:9-10); (4) love people and God’s
work more than money (1 Timothy 6:11); (5) freely share what you have with
others (1 Timothy 6:18). (See also
Proverbs 30:7-9.)
Sunday, February 24, 2013
Saturday, February 23, 2013
what's keith READING?
YOUR FAMILY . . . . . 1 Timothy 5:8 Almost everyone
has relatives, family of some kind.
Family relationships are so important in God’s eyes, Paul says, that a
person who neglects his or her family responsibilities has denied the
faith. Are you doing your part to meet
the needs of those included in your family circle? Even your little brothers and sisters?
Friday, February 22, 2013
what's keith READING?
INNER TUGS . . . . . 1 Timothy 1:19 How can you
keep a good conscience? Treasure your
faith in Christ more than anything else and do what you know is right. Each time you deliberately ignore your
conscience, you are hardening your heart.
Soon your capacity to tell right from wrong will disappear. But when you walk with God, he is able to
speak to you through your conscience, letting you know the difference between
right and wrong. Be sure to act on those
inner tugs to do what is right—then your conscience will remain clear.
Thursday, February 21, 2013
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
what's keith READING?
PERSIST . . . . . Colossians 4:2 Have you ever
grown tired of praying for something or someone? Paul says, “Devote yourselves to
prayer.” Vigilance demonstrates our
faith that God answers our prayers.
Faith shouldn’t die if the answers don’t come immediately, for the delay
may be God’s way of working his will in your life. When you feel weary in your prayers, know
that God is present, always listening, always acting—maybe not in ways you had
hoped, but in ways that he knows are best.
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Monday, February 18, 2013
what's keith READING?
LOOK AT JESUS . . . . . Galatians 6:4 When you do your
very best, you feel good about the results, and there is no need to compare
yourself with others. People make
comparisons for many reasons. Some point
out others’ flaws in order to feel better about themselves. Others simply want reassurance that they are
doing well. When you are tempted to
compare, look at Jesus Christ. His
example will inspire you to do your very best, and his loving acceptance will
comfort you when you fall short of your goals.
is keith ON THE PURSUIT TO HAPPYNESS?
It has been a little over a year since I have even stepped foot inside of the Harry & Jeanette Weinberg Housing & Resource Center. Thanks to my Lord and Savoir, Jesus Christ, and my on again/off again boyfriend, Richard Hunt, I have had a warm place to lay my head each and every night. I've even had a steady job for all of three months now. I'm successfully contolling my HIV status. I'm mending relationships old and new. And I'm truly on the Pursuit to a better life. I'm not perfect and I'm nowhere close to where I want to be just yet but I'm definitely headed in the right direction. All I can do is take one step at a time and remain a humble and honest person. I'm putting all my trust in the Lord because I know that he has already prepared the way, I just have to take heed.
I recently saw the movie, The Persuit of Happyness, starring Will Smith. It's been all of a few years since I've seen the film (I actually own the DVD.) and it really struck a nerve moreso that it did the first few times I watched it. I'm quite sure it's because I'm truly living the same experience. I've finally experienced a tramatic low point in my life where I really didn't see any sign of hope and just out of nowhere, the hole began to mend all by itself. When I first saw The Persuit of Happyness, I had no idea how it was to live inside of a homeless shelter and now I do and I can finally say that I've made it through to the other side. This saga has yet to come to a close and I have not been able to truly say that I've found happyness, but I can say that I'm moving closer to it each and every day. I just hope that I don't take anymore U-turns, if you know what I mean.
Sunday, February 17, 2013
what's keith READING?
LOVE . . . . . Galatians 5:14-15 When we are
not motivated by love, we become critical of others. We stop looking for good in them and see only
their faults. Soon the unity of
believers becomes broken. Have you
talked behind someone’s back? Have you
focused on others’ shortcoming instead of their strengths? Remind yourself of Jesus’ command to love
others as we love ourselves (Matthew 22:39).
When you begin to feel critical of someone, make a list of that person’s
positive qualities. And don’t say
anything behind his back that you wouldn’t say to his face.
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Friday, February 15, 2013
what's keith READING?
THE POINT . . . . . 2 Corinthians 8:2 While on his
third missionary journey, Paul was collecting money for the impoverished
believers in Jerusalem. The churches in
Macedonia—Philippi, Thessalonica, and Berea—gave money even though they were
poor, and they gave more than Paul expected.
This was sacrificial giving; they were poor themselves, but they wanted
to help. The point of gibing is not the
amount we give, but why and how we gibe.
God wants us to gibe as these churches did—out of dedication to him,
love for fellow believers, the joy of helping those in need, and because it is
right to do so. How does your giving
measure up?
Thursday, February 14, 2013
Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
keith, WHAT IS LOVE?
If I could speak in any
language in heaven or on earth but didn’t love others, I would only be making
meaningless noise like a loud gong or a clanging cymbal. (2) If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I
knew all the mysteries of the future and knew everything about everything, but
didn’t love others, what good would I be?
And if I had the gift of faith so that I could speak to a mountain and
make it move, without love I would be no good to anybody. (3) If I gave everything I have to the poor
and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it but if I didn’t love
others, I would be of no value whatsoever.
(4) Love is patient and
kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or
proud (5) or rude. Love does not demand
its own way. Love is not irritable, and
it keeps no record of when it has been wronged.
(6) It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth
wins out. (7) Love never gives up, never
loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
(8) Love will last forever, but
prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will all
disappear. (9) Now we know only a
little, and even the gift of prophecy reveals little! (10) But when the end comes, these special
gifts will all disappear.
(11) It’s like this: When I was a child, I
spoke and thought and reasoned as a child does.
But when I grew up, I put away childish things. (12) Now we see things imperfectly as in a
poor mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and
incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God knows me
now.
(13) There are three things
that will endure—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.
1
Corinthians: Chapter 13
The
New Living Translation
Monday, February 11, 2013
what's keith READING?
THE BEST . . . . . 1 Corinthians 10:33 Paul’s
criterion was not what he like best, but what was best for those around
him. There are several hurtful attitudes
toward others: (1) being insensitive and doing what we want, no matter who is
hurt by our actions; (2) being oversensitive and doing nothing, for fear
someone may be displeased; (3) being a “yes person” by going along with
everything, trying to gain approval from people rather than from God. In this age of “me first” and “looking out
for number one,” Paul’s startling statement is a good standard. When we make the good of others one of our
primary goals, we develop a servant’s heart.
Sunday, February 10, 2013
Saturday, February 9, 2013
what's keith READING?
Ultimate Issues
AIDS:
WHAT WOULD JESUS DO? There
are few more explosive topics in America than AIDS. Conservatives believe AIDS is God’s judgment
on certain sinners. Gay rights groups
and others scream just as loudly that this is a medical issue, not a moral one. Who’s right?
And how should Christians respond to this overwhelming problem? In
one sense, AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome) is primarily a medical issue.
The AIDS virus attacks the body’s immune system, making the body
defenseless against the diseases a healthy person’s immune system would
destroy. AIDS is an “equal opportunity” NIGHTMARE—it
affects everyone: young, old, male, female, gay, or straight. If
AIDS isn’t a punishment from God, why has it hit the male gay community and IV
drug abusers so hard? The answer is that
gay men and IV drug abusers participate in activities that pass the virus from
person to person very effectively. God
hasn’t singled out particular groups for special judgment; rather, those people
engage in activities that are particularly risky in regard to the transmission
of AIDS. God created the universe to run in accordance with NATURAL LAWS,
like gravity, inertia, etc. When your
try to defy those laws, you lose. You
may not like the law of gravity, but jump off a building and you will—like it
or not—encounter it. There are natural
laws governing human behavior, too. One
such law is that your body is not made for sexual promiscuity. Violate that law and you RISK contracting AIDS or other diseases (syphilis, gonorrhea,
herpes, etc.). Likewise, your body was
not made to handle large amounts of drugs.
Continually inject them into your veins and you probably will experience
a lot of physical problems—one of which may be AIDS. So it’s not that
God is using AIDS to “get” certain kinds of people. AIDS simply is a natural—though
terrifying—result of human behavior that goes against God’s design for our
lives. Those who believe AIDS is a
special divine judgment simply don’t understand the reality of their own sin. As the psalmist wrote in Psalm 143:1-2, “Hear
my prayer, O Lord; listen to my plea!
Answer me because you are faithful and righteous. Don’t bring your servant to trial! Compared to you, no one is perfect.” A
cure for AIDS is still years away; but even if it weren’t, the only reasonable,
Christian response is to follow God’s standards for sexual morality. Sex is made for marriage only—to be kept in
the context of a faithful, monogamous relationship between husband and wife. Anything else is unbiblical, sinful, and
potentially fatal. Likewise, we must
reaffirm God’s ownership of our body by not abusing it with
drugs. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians
6:19-20, “Don’t you know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who
lives in you? . . . God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.” Where we have failed to live up to this, we
need to confess our sins, repent, and ask God’s forgiveness.
Many Christians also need to
confess their judgmental attitudes toward persons with AIDS. There is no room in Christianity for feelings
of superiority or self-righteousness.
Jesus had strong words for those who were guilty of spiritual pride, of
thinking they were better than others.
Our response toward anyone with this terrible disease should be concern,
compassion, and a hand reaching out to ease his or her pain and distress. Isn’t
that how Jesus deals with people, regardless of their sins?
Friday, February 8, 2013
Thursday, February 7, 2013
what's keith READING?
HOMOSEXUALITY If you’re like most
American teenagers, the day you get your driver’s license and can take the car
out for a drive—alone—is a day you dream (or dreamed) of. Before that, Mom, Dad, or the driving teacher
rode “shotgun” to make sure you drove safely.
But now, with your license, you’re
on your own. The thrill or freedom
and the increased sense of responsibility make you feel more like an
adult. No one will tell you when to stop
or remind you to use your turn signal.
It’s up to you. Suppose you decide that, contrary to
everything you’ve been told up to now, you want to drive on the left-hand side
of the road. (Remember, we’re talking
about the U.S., not England or Hong Kong.)
You will quickly encounter serious opposition to your choice of driving
style (like a head-on collision). You
can either learn from your observations and experiences, or you can insist that
you have the right to drive however you wish, and whatever happens, happens. When
it comes to driving, it’s pretty obvious what the wisest choice is. Here in Romans 1, Paul addresses and issue
that seems equally clear-cut, and yet men and women have struggled with it
since Adam and Eve were evicted from
Eden. The issue is homosexuality. Paul
argues that all people everywhere are without excuse in knowing that there is a
God. Proclaiming that nature itself
reveals its Creator, Paul then begins a scathing rebuke against people who deny
God and HIS PLAN FOR CREATION. Paul has
particularly harsh words for those who engage in the sins of idolatry and homosexuality. These people, he writes, go against God’s
design for human sexuality, and in so doing will experience drastic
consequences for their behavior. Like
our fictional teenage driver, men and women who practice homosexuality
experience tremendous oppositions—socially, emotionally, physically, and
spiritually. Yet they ignore all these
warning signs. Sooner or later, though,
they will CRASH AND BURN. Two
important messages need to be given on the subject of homosexuality. One is for our society, which has lost any
meaningful idea of sin, righteousness, holiness, and truth. That message is that all lifestyles are not acceptable. Some lifestyles—such as alcoholism, or
materialism . . . or homosexuality—are wrong; they are sinful. Those who engage in such behaviors should
come to God in confession and repentance and ask for forgiveness and healing. The
second message is for the church (meaning all Christians). What they need to understand is that while
homosexuality is sin, it is not the unforgiveable sin. God love homosexuals just as much as he loves
other sinners. Jesus’ death on the cross
paid for the sin of homosexuality, just as it paid for the sins of lying,
greed, lust, hate, and pride. It has
been said—and it is true—that the church is a HOSPITAL FOR SINNERS, not a
showcase for saints. It is a place where
those caught in the sin of homosexuality can come to be freed and
forgiven. It is a place where believers
who have committed the sins of hatred, prejudice, and self-righteousness toward
homosexuals need to go to ask the Lord for forgiveness and healing. Homosexuals,
like all sinners, stand guilty before God.
If that were the whole story, there would be no hope. The great message of Romans—and the entire
Bible—is that there is hope for sinners of all kinds through the life, death,
and resurrection of Jesus Christ. He is
the one who will set us free, regardless of our sin.
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Tuesday, February 5, 2013
Monday, February 4, 2013
what's keith READING?
EVEN BETTER . . . . . Acts 27:1-28:24 One of Paul’s
most important journeys was to Rome, but he didn’t get there in quite the way
he had expected. It turned out to be
more of a legal journey than a missionary journey, thanks to a series of legal
trials and transactions. These events
resulted in Paul being delivered to Rome, where he told his story of the gospel
in the most amazing places, including the palace of the emperor! Sometimes we feel frustrated because our
plans don’t work out the way we wanted them to.
But God is never out of control!
He knows how to work things out so that the results are even better than
we expected. Trusting God with your
plans is a surefire plan for success!
Sunday, February 3, 2013
Friday, February 1, 2013
what's keith READING?
FOCUS . . . . . Acts 20:33 Paul was satisfied
with whatever he had, wherever he was, as long as he could do God’s work. Examine your attitudes toward wealth and
comfort. If you focus more on what you
don’t have than on what you do have, it’s time to reexamine your priorities and
put God’s work back in first place.
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